Starting Over

The pain involved with break-ups and loss is enough without the added pain and fear of starting over.  If the relationship was not healthy and self esteem is low then there is the fear of success in finding a job and making enough money to survive.

Where does one start?  The problem is that we have to start over with a few things at the same time:

• The most important thing is to take care of yourself! You come first, you must come first.
• There are three things that must balance in ones life:
• The Body
• The Soul
• Your mind

• Then you must take care of your basic needs, and your will be clear enough to be able to focus on starting the process towards developing your career and to learn what direction you should go.

All I can say is do not fret! And I know that you may have heard the mantras, "Time will heal", "Take one day at a time", "You can do it".


These statements are true.  They are mantras for a reason.